March  27th, 2010:   Match?

 Until about 3 years ago I never imagined I would want another relationship after being married for so long.  My role model, my mother, lost my father when she was 64 and I think the time after that when she was on her own was perhaps some of the happiest times of her life.  So I really hadn’t put much thought into another partner.

Until one day, I remember I was on my motorcycle and I thought “why not?”  Why not another partner.  It’s not too late to have a partner to match the person I had become.

That was a very liberating thought but one I wasn’t willing to act on.  But the thought began the creation.  Everything is thought before it is manifest.  So that thought just cooked and simmered until now.

So, folks, I’m on Match.com under visionkeeping.  If anyone out there has just been waiting for this moment of opportunity, now’s the time!  I know the website will probably crash under the weight of the traffic.  I like entertaining myself.

But I have a hobby for now and it’s time.  It has taken me until now to be ready for the next thing.  Even before I left for the cruise I still doubted now and then…would there be a next thing?  And now at least I know that, yes, there is a next thing and this is it.

I am counting on my intuition on this one, big time.  There are literally thousands of men in my age group looking for partners.  It’s fun looking…I can lose tract of time and then look over and realize I haven’t fed the dog as he’s looking sadly at me.  He isn’t the pushy type.

I’m still keeping my guidance open for other next things.  I also believe that my finding a partner may mean a geographical move for me and that’s exciting to think about…  I would love to find someone in Colorado, British Columbia.  But not Ontario.  There was this very nice looking man standing in a wheat field in Ontario and no thanks.  I need more warmth in my life.  There was one man who lived on a boat in the Padre Islands.  Nice but not a match.

So many choices.  I’m going to enjoy the buffet and let Law of Attraction do the work.

With Love, Connie