February 13th, 2010:    Reality – You Choose

A belief is just a thought you keep thinking.  String a lot of beliefs together and you get a picture of the reality you live in.  Because you will focus or notice those things which confirm your reality and Law of Attraction will bring you those things which confirm what you believe and so a belief situation is perpetuated, good or bad, wanted or wanted.

Except…when you decide that you can change what you focus upon to consciously take in that which feels good to you. your reality shifts too.  The more you sift and sort what you want to focus upon according to what feels good to you, the more you feel good and the more of that which feels good comes to you and on and on. 

The better I feel, the better I feel and the more I notice what feels good to me and the less I’m interested in what doesn’t feel good to me.  I watch very little TV and for sure NEVER listen to the TV news.  That’s the most distorted picture of “reality” available to us.  It’s certainly not what we should watch before going to sleep.  The news in this country is corporation driven so it needs to make money and what makes money?  Fear.  So the news is geared to a fear based reality.  That’s not a reality I’m wanting to live in.  But I don’t think most people are conscious enough to make that decision.  It’s just in front of me so I’ll watch it.  It confirms the fears I have, so I take it in and I feel more afraid.  So I guess that’s reality. 

To allow something that is so external to my life experience to energetically impact, and in many cases confirm my fears until they just become my reality is something to think about.  Canada doesn’t have corporation driven news and, on the whole they are a much less fear driven society.

So, more and more I’m really seriously careful about what I give my attention to because that energy impacts me and draws more of same to me.  The fact that many of us take not feeling all that great as normal is mind blowing when you consider that it all depends on what you choose to focus upon.  In fact, our true normal is happy, curious, energetic, eager.  Just look at children before they are trained away from themselves.

Give yourself a Valentine’s Day Present.   Focus only on what feels good to you!  That is a gift of Love.

With love, Connie