March 7th, 2010:  Take the Bounce

I’m still making an appeal for anyone who finds this writing remotely interesting to let me know.  It would really make my day.  I know there are readers who frequent the site and I would be really excited to hear from you!  Truly.    At this stage in my writing I’m hitting somewhat of a wall.  I enjoy doing this and I’m wondering if anyone else finds it useful in some way.  Hi, out there again!  I’ll keep pestering until I flush you out.  Stalking from the inside out.

So, I’m taking the bounce.  I like how that sounds.   Contrast is anything in our lives that is not to our wanting, or doesn’t feel in harmony with what we are wanting.   Contrast is essential in creating.  We would not have come here unless there was contrast.  When I was in Tahiti last year I was talking with our tour guide who was telling us about the island people who live way out on the edges of French P0lynesia.  She says while it’s beautiful that people need to be very emotionally stable to live there because of it’s beautiful sameness every day.  She remarked on the alcoholism there.

We need to mix it up.  It makes us feel alive.  So contrast is that stuff of life that stimulates us to want something different.  For example, if we are sick, we want to be well, if we don’t have enough money we want more money, if we are living alone, we may want a partner, if we are not happy at work we may want a better job and on and on.  If we are flipped off in traffic we may want nicer people in our lives.

So, when we experience contrast we automatically shoot thoughts of what we do want out into the Universe and this wanting becomes a stretching of who we are.  Actually having what we want is a much different vibration than the feeling of wanting what we don’t want.    We must heed the vibrational calling of the solution rather than beating the drum of the problem if we are to get what we want.  For example.  If I’m wanting more money it cannot come to me if I’m beating the drum of not having any.  My “not having any” vibration blocks what we want from coming to us.  It’s the Law of Attraction.

Someone famous said the energy of the solution is different from the energy of the problem or something like that.  It’s the same thing.  It’s also Law of Attraction.  If we are focussed on not enough money, only more not enough money can come to us.   Positive psychology is getting a lot of focus right now as well.

So back to taking the bounce.  If I’m not feeling good, and I haven’t been feeling good lately, just look at some of my entries, I want to feel better.  So I decided to take the bounce of this contrast, use it as a spring board to actually put myself in a better feeling place.  Not feeling good is urging me to feel better rather than worrying about not feeling good.  That only gets me more of not feeling good.  Taking the bounce is stretching myself to become the person the contrast is asking me to be.

And I can say that today I’m able to do that and it feels amazing.  I hope your brains aren’t terribly scrambled by all of this.  It can be a mind bender.  I would like nothing better than a conversation about this with you.  Ask away.

With love, Connie